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How can I encourage my young son's interest in the priesthood?

Marcie asks:

I have a young son who is 10 years old. He has had a strong desire to be a priest ever since he was 5 years old. Although I have always encouraged it, I really thought it would go away. There have been periods when he has not mentioned it as often as others, but at times it seems to be all he can think about. I have encouraged him to pray in front of the Blessed Sacrament for guidance, which he has done and it was after that when he came to me with tears in his eyes and told me that he was very sure and nothing would change his mind. He even showed me a quote from St. Pius that he said touched his heart very deeply. I know he is young and I know he may still change his mind. But I need to know what I should be doing now for him. Thank you!

Dear Marcie and Jim:  

You are privileged to see Grace working before your very eyes. It is too early to know if what your son feels and says is really a vocation to the priesthood; it is a definite attraction, however, and one that seems to be based on prayer. It is quite possible that it is a sign of what God is calling him to.  

Several things you can do:  

- Pray. Don't just pray, 'Lord, if you want him to be a priest tell us' or 'tell him'. Pray for him and every one of your children that they will each of them learn the love that God has for them - giving them life, Baptism, Communion and Reconciliation - and that they will always put him first in their lives out of love. Then also make a prayer of offering: 'Lord, I offer you each one of my children to do your work and spread your message.'  

- Encourage. Encourage your children to love God above all things, to be sensitive to the suffering and needs of others, especially their spiritual needs, to grow in a personal relationship with Christ as their Best Friend. Encourage them to pray for others, and to help others (to work and give a good part of their earnings to some charitable endeavor, for example)  

- Talk to them about heaven, the saints. Teach them the Catechism.  

- Make sure your son develops in a well-rounded way, that he does physical labor, yard work, etc; that he plays sports, gets a few knocks and dings; that he studies, acquires a fascination for reading; that you give him responsibilities that he sees through until they are done; that he develops good friendships; that he always finds in both of you example in everything; that he values and practices loyalty, honesty, service, kindness and courtesy; encourage cheerfulness, contact with nature, courage.  

- Beware of too much TV and passivity.  

Don't be dismayed with the long list, it is what I am sure you are already doing but sometimes we underestimate the importance of the small, normal things in life, and the human virtues.  

God bless.

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