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How can I best take care of my mother?

Sally asks:

To whom it may concern, Greetings in Christ! I have been discerning religious life for the last couple years. I have finally opened the door to my soul. Yes Lord your servant is listening. I have been helping out with an order that I am feeling God is calling me to. The only thing is my mom and dad divorced when I was young... I live with my mom. She has no health insurance. I worry that something will happen to her... I have told her of my feelings. She says if it is the will of God let it be, but I am still concerned. She seems upset that I will leave her by herself. That is why I have not gone. Is that wrong? I want to follow wherever the good Lord leads me. I realize it is not always easy to trust in the Lord with all my heart... but I pray everyday for the strength to say yes no matter what it may cost me. I love to spend time in adoration before the Lord. I feel that my heart is being lead closer each day to the Lord. I am starting the nursing program in May and I feel in two years I will be entering the convent as a sister. My question is: can God still be calling me to become a sister... my heart and soul longs to serve the Lord always. The sisters understand that I must pay things off and that I plan to finish my nursing classes first. I have talked to them about my mom. The sisters asked me if my mom would in a couple years like to come live at the assisted living department with them. My thing is that if I asked my mom that question I know she will think I am trying to put her somewhere... which I am not... I am sorry this is so long.

Dear Sally,  

The problem you are faced with is a practical one, I am afraid I am only going to be able to talk around it a little to see if I can give you some light. 

As regard your personal perception and acceptance of the vocation everything seems in place, the Sisters have practically accepted you, and the only question as yet unanswered seems to be, 'is my mother sure to need me at some stage in the future?' You do not mention any brothers or sisters. That would be a major factor. Of course you should make sure that any pending debts you have are paid off, and that some provision is made for your mother (her present age, state of health and means of support need to be considered also). It may not be necessary to bring up with your mother the possibility of arranging assisted living in the future - that would be something for you to know is there in case a need arises. 

Hope that helps in some way. Be sure of my prayers. God bless.

 

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